He’s just not that into you Part II
Thankfully, I was neither born last night nor am I inexperienced when it comes to dating. The truth is, no matter how “vulnerable� a man may claim to be in an attempt to avoid “the talk,� it is true that when he is really into a girl, he pulls out all the stops. This is the voice of experience. Nothing can or will stand in his way to be with the real “girl of his dreams.� Going through the motions of a nine-month courtship with only the promise of having a long-distance relationship for the first year of being together? Been there. Maybe I’ve been spoiled in thinking it shouldn’t be a problem for a guy to drive 20 miles out of the way to pick me up for a “real date� when I’ve had men who have no problem driving three hours or fly across the country or move to another continent for me (yes, really and no, I’m not bragging because of course, I was willing to do my part too… but unfortunately, they didn’t work out, so there). A challenge you say? Only if pesky things like money or jobs or school get in the way…but the few who were (WAY) into me seemed to always make it work. He doesn’t let anything in his way, he wants and does spend as much time with you as possible and makes sure of it. He calls when he says he’s going to, he makes plans and his word is impeccable. And if something comes up, he makes it up to you. His actions do speak louder than his words just to prove to you that he is in fact into you—and he doesn’t allow you to think otherwise.
xx
Sandy
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