Greener
It is so weird. I am reflecting on the last couple of months and how different my dating experiences have been—and the contrasts between G and A.
For anyone new to my blog, I have been casually seeing G for a little over two months and A has been a two week spurt.
G is typical SoCal –laid back and doesn’t take much too seriously.
A is intense. He is a type A typical East Coast personality in perpetual overdrive. He even mentioned in passing that his new goal is to speak faster because once he moves to New York City to be a mogul on Wall Street, they won’t be able to tolerate slow, coherent California speech.
I suppose it makes sense, but it really is funny to me how my individual relationships with both of these people match their personalities to a tee.
One has been smooth-sailing and is pretty much perfect for what I want and need right now because there is absolutely no pressure. At all. It is great. And there is an end in sight when he leaves for New Zealand in a couple of months. So there’s a bonus.
The other has got me feeling like in warp speed and can’t slow down to breathe—and of course, his knack for face swallowing doesn’t help me much in that area either. Thankfully, there’s an end in sight to this one too since he’s moving shortly after graduation next month.
Off the hook again. Ahh—it’s true what they say. The grass is always greener. Especially for women who can’t make up their minds (guilty.)
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